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Keeping track of your workflow

A high tea session is a monthly publication created for the purpose of feeling like we’re spending an afternoon together over delicious cakes while drinking some fresh tea to discuss some questions that I am asked regarding business, so grab your cup of tea (mine is Earl Grey) and settle in:

The past month I’ve been spending numerous hours inside a business that is not mine, but wanting to see succeed just as much as my own. I’ve been working with another entrepreneur on getting their business work flows, systems, and marketing in place to help them propel their business forward. It’s been fantastic to see them go from overwhelming stress to a sense of calm and direction in just a few short weeks. Aside from photography, I love working with women business owners and pushing their passions forward and this has been a great outlet for me.

As I’ve been working with her, creating spreadsheets and digging in deeper with how her business runs, I thought I’d share a few of my favourite tools with you that help me stay on top of my routine tasks and clients.

KNOW THE TYPE OF BUSINESS YOU’RE RUNNING
The experience, service and products I provide for my clients is luxurious and high end, however, with that in mind I run my business with the mantra that simplicity is the ultimate form of sophistication. I’ve built my business with every intention of being low volume with high impact, a working schedule that has a decent work/life balance so I can put 100% energy into running my business during office hours and take regular vacations and relax 100% of the time while I’m away. I also know that I’d be hiring an assistant. Because I’ve been hyper aware of what type of business I am building I knew the type of processes I’d need to put into place so that I can give that luxurious and high end experience and when I my assistant walks in the door they will know exactly where I am with in every aspect of my business with as little input from me. Knowing the type of business you’re running and where it’s headed will help dictate what you need from office management, applications to run, and products to order.

KEEPING TRACK OF DOCUMENTS
I work with 2 different computers (I’m a MAC & PC), which is handy when I need multiple screens open while I’m working, but is very daunting when I’m trying to track down where I saved my pricing sheet. Between the 2 computers, 2 external harddrives, and USBs, my documents got out of hand. So I moved everything that I needed to access on a daily basis to Google Docs. This makes it easy to access from any computer in my studio or if I happen to be traveling I don’t have to worry about transferring files before leaving (granted I have to find wifi but it’s pretty easy to find these day). I also love Dropbox to transfer files back and forth and not have to hassle with USB or Harddrives.

TRACKING CLIENT PROGRESS
I created a spreadsheet inside Google documents titled, Every experience is LUX, because Client workflow is too boring for me. It’s also a daily reminder to go above and beyond my client’s expectations. Every part of my workflow is documented from booking, confirming a makeup artist, backing up images, and selecting which gifts to send is so that I can track every move and follow up when needed.

STREAMLINE THE PROCESS
I work hard on making every client experience LUX, but I also desire a simple and streamlined process as much as possible. So I have templates created for every step along the way. Everything from client’s first inquiry to a list of what I need to pack for every shoot. Email templates are saved as a Quicktext inside my Thunderbird email application, which makes it easy to customize for each client. What gear to pack (everything from a session to a spring or winter vacation) is held in a document so I know what needs to go in the suitcase. And all the small details that go in my final package to my client is also listed out in a document with the location it resides in my studio so that it can easily be found. It saves me so much time and is perfect for when if I am unable to complete something within my deadline that I can easily have someone come in and finish it off for me.

This is just a glimpse into how I stay on top of my work flow and hopefully will help you if you’ve been wondering what to do. But also, please share in the comments what you are currently doing!

Also, if there is anything in regards to business you’d like to know, feel free to email me!

Stop comparing and give love

When you stop comparing yourself to others and decide to give love.
When you give up on finding the perfect balance and decide to excel in the imbalance.
When you decide to set yourself free from the exceptions of others and follow your heart.

Creativity, love, and determination will begin to invade and take over. Sounds pretty fantastic doesn’t it? So start today.

4 comments
  • DanielleMarch 9, 2012 - 2:56 PM

    you have no idea how much I needed to hear this. It’s like a hug straight from Europe. I love you and I miss you!!ReplyCancel

  • Denise (Modern Love Photography)March 9, 2012 - 3:19 PM

    Starting right this minute, because excelling in imbalance sounds like something I can do! It has been one of those weeks for sure BUT I am going to take all the challenges and meet and exceed them!

    I LOVE YOU!

    DeniseReplyCancel

  • Kelly JohnsenMarch 9, 2012 - 3:35 PM

    Very well said, Lesley! I love that…”excel in the imbalance.” What a great perspective!! I’m such a huge fan, Lesley, of your work and your writing. Really hope to get to meet you one day….ReplyCancel

  • anouschkaMarch 9, 2012 - 3:55 PM

following your heart in the face of adversity


I stood in my parent’s kitchen, with a cup of hot coffee in my hands, leaning against the counter while my childhood mentor looked at me with every ounce of love and care in her eyes. “I’m worried for you, please know that I’m praying that you find your way back”. I looked down when the hot tears threatened to spill, but I knew they were not because I was ashamed but because I knew I was hurting those who meant the world to me. I was turning my back on something I had grew up believing and was throwing it all to the wind to find my own way.

“Thank you” I finally said “But I don’t feel like I’m back sliding” knowing full well that everyone else in my position had uttered the same, but also knowing that I wasn’t ‘back sliding’ per say but was exploring a new option, something that felt right within my heart.

Two months earlier I had closed the dark navy leather cover of my bible filled with messages of hope and forgiveness, my handwriting written on almost every single page, and gave up. I felt tired, confused, and no longer able to keep up in the race of being a status quo Christian. I had spent the past 24 years of my life reading and living out the words that I had highlighted and felt completely empty. I bowed my head and said or prayed, its the same to me, “I’m trying something new because this is just not working”. The next week I walked away from 12 years of youth leadership, worship team participation, and the family I had built around me. It was one of the hardest and easiest decisions I had ever made. I made the decision to turn away from the Church.

Standing back in the kitchen, my parents and my mentor were pleading with me to come back to God and to stop living in the world. But I knew I couldn’t do what they were asking or expecting of me. I was finally happy with a decision and I knew this was the path I was meant to be on. I still struggled with what people were thinking of me since I wasn’t attending church but I was determined to prove that Church did not dictate my relationship with God. My heart, my mind, and my actions were stronger indicators. I couldn’t explain it at the time and didn’t really know what the outcome would be but I knew I had to follow through on this. I said it would only be a few months, a year, at most. It’s now coming up to 5 years.

The first year was the hardest, dealing with all my previous beliefs of who I was and who I was turning into, dealing with what people thought of me for turning away and them saying I was no longer a Christian, of being angry at God. But then it got easier not being involved, to defend myself when I was accused, and to forgive those who did not understand. But the biggest thing I learned was forgiving myself and learning to trust who I was.

It took four years, but I was finally able to forgive myself for creating a box to place my god in, I was able to forgive the Church for placing limitations on me and instilling fear in my heart, and I was finally able to trust that this journey I decided to embark on was not on my own accord but created by him for us to do together so that I could learn the true heart of my god and all that it means to me.

It took me almost five years to know that following my heart, when it’s something that people don’t understand or has no boundaries is one of the most important things I could have ever done.

I still do not attend a service but every church we enter during our travels I spend time in meditation and praise, I no longer participate in worship or read my bible but walks through nature and exploring this beautiful world has brought me closer to my god, and the god of my childhood has finally given over to the god of my future and it is a beautiful, gracious, and glorious being … one that I am proud to know.

Are you following your heart, despite what people will think of you, how your family will react, or how you believe you are supposed to be?

 

8 comments
  • MelMarch 2, 2012 - 6:18 PM

    Love your honesty friend. Amazing how quickly people assume that walking away from ‘church’ is somehow walking away from God or spirituality. Church is broken people and practice; Community is relationship and can be found within and outside of church. Keep writing~ReplyCancel

  • AnitaMarch 2, 2012 - 6:22 PM

    Yes, Lesley I am following my heart … I did a lot of things in the past because I thought people expected it from me and most of all in contact with my sister .. I never wanted to hurt my parents … but finally I snapped. It’s a long story and maybe if we meet again, Lesley, I will tell you what happened. It is not something I want to share on the Internet. I did hurt my parents when I finally told them, but they were glad I finally told them what my “problem” was. It still hurts, but boy: thatpeace in my heart!ReplyCancel

  • Bev LeederMarch 2, 2012 - 7:02 PM

    Hi Pumpkin, God still loves you no matter what. You will never lose your Salvation. Don’t forget the poem “Foot Prints” he’s always with you and protecting you. I know that for sure, when I was drowning, he pulled me out of the water, as I was hooked on a depth sounder and couldn’t get loose. I called on our Jesus and was yanked out of the water, couldn’t walk right for about 6 weeks my leg was so sore, it was a constant reminder of what Love he has for me/us.ReplyCancel

  • Katrina BrubacherMarch 2, 2012 - 11:26 PM

    Hi Lesley
    I haven’t seen you in FOREVER but loved what you wrote. I’ve had a very similar experience and you expressed it so eloquently. It’s been very interesting “living in the world” which was something we were always taught to fear, but in fact I feel closer to God and much more the person I’m meant to be than ever before. I now believe God is much more flexible and available and accessible than I grew up believing.
    Good for you Lesley! Glad to hear that you are following your heart and that it has brought you to such a special place.ReplyCancel

  • Bonnie FeldsteinMarch 2, 2012 - 11:52 PM

    I totally support you and your choice.

    I was raised in a mixed faith family, Catholic and Protestant. My early education was in a Catholic private school and I attended church every Sunday. I had my First Communion when I was 6 and many years later was confirmed in the United Church. I was part of Young People’s groups and taught Sunday school. Then at the age of 19 I met and fell in love with a Jewish man who was brought up in a Jewish home with all their traditions. We married 40 years ago and our marriage thrived as we grew and learned together. We never attended either a Church or a Synagogue but we loved and respected each other and the life we were building. This was an enormous step as you can imagine; however, our actions drew our 2 families together as we never could have forseen. Our Mothers became wonderful friends and our families have grown and formed bonds that nothing could break. We have 2 children who have become amazing adults and now 2 (soon to be 3) grandchildren who have given our parents enormous pleasure. Also, both families became more tolerant and forgiving and this has helped them enormously over the years as their traditions have been often tested. No one has lost their faith we just practice it differently but in the end it all comes down to being good people and practicing those values we were taught as children. These values can be passed on very easily without attending a church and prayers are heard from anyplace, anytime, anywhere.

    Stay true to yourself and you will always find your way.ReplyCancel

  • RachMarch 3, 2012 - 2:39 AM

    Totally hear you on the whole, the first year was the hardest! I so relate to your experience, though I know every journey is unique. Five years later for me and I feel more confident and at rest than ever. Thanks for sharing!!ReplyCancel

  • SimoneMarch 4, 2012 - 11:27 PM

    Beautiful blog post, so relate to what you’re writing! Wonderful to read that you believe in God and found your own way to get to know his heart. I left the (evangelical) church building a long time ago, too. Have been trying since to find other ways to ‘be’ church with other people, without boundaries and unnecessary habits. But, for me and my husband, it’s still a struggle!
    Oh, and you write so beautifully, I think you could write books and articles for a living, too. 😉ReplyCancel

  • TanjaMarch 12, 2012 - 8:49 AM

    Lesley, I so love that you shared this! xoxoReplyCancel

stepping into your own and declaring success

Today marks the start of my birthday month! A few week weeks of anticipation to lead up to my birthday, and then a couple of weeks after to keep the celebrations flowing and enjoying all the small moments in between my actual birthday! The months leading up to this have been spent a lot in self reflection and honesty…because what else are you supposed to do when you reach a monumental year?!

Between all the glitter and champagne popping, pointing out all the goodies I’d love to see wrapped in pretty paper and fancy bows, I know that this year is the year to see things happen and finally step into my own (preferably with a pair of Louboutin’s) and declaring success!

Owning your own company can sometimes leave you feeling like a failure because you’re constantly seeing everyone else producing amazing work, announcing another booking or sale, or taking an unbelievable holiday that you believe is due to their raising success…while you sit there completely dismissing everything you’ve done.

I recently sat down and wrote down everything I’ve ever had to do for my business, I noticed I’ve been too busy watching and looking at everyone else, that I was astounded to finally see the risks I took, the guts I have, and the amazing courage I have (and we have) as a business owner! The cold calls we have to make, the pitches and talks we make to strangers, the amount of doors that we knock on and usually slammed in our faces. How many people can say they do that, day in and day out, for something they are passionate about?!

So this year, as I step into another decade, I am declaring success!

as a woman | as a business owner | as a stylish person | as a world traveler | as a writer | as a photographer | as a lover, wife, friend, sister, daughter

And I will continue to explore, stepping forward into who I am, and expanding everything that I know.

2 comments
  • anouschkaMarch 1, 2012 - 12:44 PM

    Here’s to a year of success! I’m sure you’ll be rocking it out this year!ReplyCancel

  • CarinaMarch 1, 2012 - 2:18 PM

    You always seem to say the exact words that are twirling in my head but can’t find their way out. I LOVE your writing 🙂ReplyCancel

Amsterdam boudoir fotographie feature in Bruid and Bruidegom


I spent three days laying on the couch watching episodes of Downton Abbey (if you haven’t seen it, go get the box sets, you’ll love it!) and Mad Men in between bouts of endless sleep. There is not much joy when you are sick so spending time with fashion and set design inspiration, sleep was all I could expect. However, what made me really happy was having something exciting I didn’t expect land on my door step!

I have been waiting, for what felt like forever, to see my images featured in a magazine and this month if finally happened! I am honoured to be featured in the Groom’s edition of Bruid & Bruidegom in The Netherlands! Many thanks to Eefje for the beautiful write up and to Bruidegom for featuring myself along side my gorgeous client!

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12 comments
  • anouschkaFebruary 28, 2012 - 1:51 PM

    congrats! wonderful!ReplyCancel

  • CarinaFebruary 28, 2012 - 2:08 PM

    Congrats Lesley! You and your stunning pictures deserve it!ReplyCancel

  • NikiFebruary 28, 2012 - 3:41 PM

    Oh Lesley! This is wonderful. I am so happy for you, to see that your dreams are coming true! Congratulations!! Fabulous work!ReplyCancel

    • LesleyFebruary 28, 2012 - 6:43 PM

      It is fun, seeing dreams come true! Thank you Niki! 🙂ReplyCancel

  • LindsayFebruary 28, 2012 - 4:39 PM

    Wow! How fantastic is that ~ such great exposure for you. Congratulations Lesley!!ReplyCancel

  • KseniaFebruary 29, 2012 - 1:09 AM

    Congratulations! Well deserved, your work is beautiful. Best wishes from your hometown.ReplyCancel

  • MartaFebruary 29, 2012 - 5:27 AM

    Congratulations Lesley – that’s an awesome accomplishment!ReplyCancel

  • bill tetlowFebruary 29, 2012 - 5:08 PM

    Wow bring a copy of the magazine in June pleaseReplyCancel

  • Bev LeederFebruary 29, 2012 - 5:39 PM

    Very pretty, want ot see more of your work when you get back.ReplyCancel

  • Cathy EmpeyApril 10, 2012 - 4:24 AM

    Congratulations Lesley!!! I am so happy for you!ReplyCancel